Obsession is not love,
infatuation is not love,
when someone ignores you
or treat you poorly, carelessly,
or with indifference
that’s not love.
That’s lack of love,
for yourself, for trying to fill
your missing pieces with theirs
but when someone is whole
and you are whole
and you act in kindness and benevolence, vulnerability
through strength,
love becomes an exchange
with another person,
and that is
its truest form.

Atticus